Tuesday, February 22, 2011


 Did you know when someone that you know is actually a liar????

How to Detect Lies

Become a Lie Detector

Warning: sometimes ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.

Signs of Deception:

Body Language of Lies:

• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.
• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.
• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.

Emotional Gestures & Contradiction

how to see a fake smile
• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.
• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.
• Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”
• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.
Also see our article on micro expressions & lying.


Interactions and Reactions

• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.
• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.
• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.

Verbal Context and Content

• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”
•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it”
• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.
• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.

• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.
• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other
words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.
• The use of distancing language. out to wikipedia

Other signs of a lie:

• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject.
• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.


who are u..??

Who are u?
what is your personality?
What is your dream?
Who you want to be..
 A success people?
A knowledgable people?
A lazy people?

only you know who you are..
what are you want to be..
so..thinking and start to explore yourself so that you find who you really are..
thank you..

Friday, February 18, 2011

Shophaholic?yes or no?

people loves to buy something 
But when you buy a lots of things,
again and again
are you will be categorized in shophaholic people or not?

How to Know If you're are the one of shopaholic people...haha
  1. 1
    You hide purchases from your friends and family. If you shop alone, and make a point of hiding new clothing, jewelry, shoes, store bags, tags, and receipts from your significant other, you are ashamed of what you are doing. You're hiding destructive behavior in the same way a closet alcoholic does.
  2. 2
    You are an emotional shopper. In the same way that food addicts eat when they are sad, angry, anxious, or scared, a shopaholic will shop when experiencing an emotional upheaval.
  3. 3
    You feel a "rush" when you make your purchases. Because of your shopping addiction, your brain's chemistry is affected by your shopping addiction. A shopaholic experiences a combination of euphoria and nervousness when buying things to satisfy their addiction.
  4. 4
    You have negative emotions after you have shopped. A shopaholic will experience feelings of shame, anger, or embarrassment after they have completed their purchases. They know what they are doing is wrong, and regret their actions right after they've purchased their items.
  5. 5
    You neglect needs to support your shopping habit. Shopping addicts will fall behind on necessary bills and expenses, such as water and electric bills, mortgages, and car payments, in order to keep their shopping habit. It's not uncommon for a shopping addiciton to get to a point where the addict loses their car or home because they can't keep up with their personal debt.
  6. 6
    You lie about your shopping trips. Shopaholics will lie to family, saying they spent or purchased significantly less than they actually did.



Love YoUr ClotheS...

Do u Have a lots of clothes?

maybe yes maybe not..

but do u know how to take care of your clothes?

                        How To take care Your clothes...

Make sure you put your clothes on a hanger when you get undressed at night if they are going to be worn again. Put everything else into the hamper to be washed. Never just put your clothes into a ball, and drop them on the floor. Protect the fabric, and the items will last and always look nice.

Prevent getting food stains on your shirts or blouses by bringing the spoon 'to' your mouth, and gently sip the contents, so as to prevent dripping. When eating a pasta or gravy dish, hold the napkin between your shirt or blouse and the food, again, move your mouth to the fork.

Dab ice water or seltzer onto food stains immediately , so it does not set. Do not rub.

Wash your clothes often. Use a gentle wash cycle for delicates. Do not use liquid bleach in the wash. Separate colors from whites. Pure soap with a handful of bicarbonate (baking) soda is a much better, safer and more environmentally friendly bleach than White King. Chemical bleaches are extremely bad for your health, and don't properly wash out of your clothes.

Try not to use a dryer at all. Dryers wear out your clothes and fade their colours more quickly than drying in sunlight. Drying in sunlight or in the open air is also a much healthier way of drying your clothes - sunlight is a natural disinfectant. And lastly, clothes-dryers use an enormous amount of electricity, contributing to the greenhouse effect and your electricity bill. Try drying your clothes on clothes-racks if the weather is not good, and ironing them when still slightly damp. Much better for your clothes and for the environment. If you absolutely have to use a dryer, use it on the warm setting and clear the lint filter after every load. If the temperature is too hot, your clothes will come out all wrinkled. If your dryer has a delicate cycle use it. Make sure you do not leave the dryer on, longer than necessary.

Remove the clothes from the dryer and hang them up immediately. Button the top button on shirts, and hang blouses neatly on the hanger. Slacks should go on a special pants hanger, that clips over the top of the waist. Smooth the fabric with your hand, so as to avoid wrinkles. Iron out any wrinkles that might occur.

Fold all other garments neatly and place in the dresser drawers. 

Hang your clothes in the closet, and make sure they are not all crowded or crushed together. They need breathing room or they will become all wrinkled and slip off the hangers and land on the floor.